I’m a sleep-a-holic. I sleep at least 8 hours every night and on weekends I turn in for around 10. I am a total crank pot when I don’t get a good night of sleep, and I have an absolute fear of insomnia. So you can imagine that finding natural sleep remedies for my family has been a passion. I’ve additionally covered the topic of sleep in 2 previous posts, 5 Ways to Get a Better Night’s Sleep, and 5 Reasons to Give up Coffee. Caffeine is my personal anti-Christ when it comes to sleeping, and I avoid it religiously.
I have instigated a culture of sleep in our house, and it seems to be sticking. We all brag about how early we go to bed, and how late we sleep in the morning. Sleep is worshiped here by the entire family!
I’ve taken many practical steps to ensure that we sleep well. First, all of the bedrooms have analog alarm clocks rather than digital, i.e., electronic alarm clocks. Did you know that the glow from an electronic clock can fool your body into thinking it’s daytime, disrupt circadian rhythms, and interfere with a woman’s menstrual cycle by tricking the body into thinking it’s always a full moon?! To prevent this I have purchased “old fashioned alarm clocks.”
Additionally all of our bedrooms have floor to ceiling black out curtains covering the windows. I prefer curtains to shades, as shades can let light through around the edges.
My cell phone policy is another cornerstone of our sleeping regimen. The boys and I do not bring our cell phones into our bedrooms after dark, as cell phone screens disrupt sleep with their blue light. Some people use f.lux, on their phones, an app that blocks out blue light, however I have found that any light inhibits deep sleep, so have instituted the no phone policy.
I have created a cell phone charging station at our mail desk, so that I can easily see that phones are plugged in at bedtime. I park my phone in my cubby in our mudroom.
As the boys have gotten older and their stress has increased from the intensity of academics and the competitiveness of sports, so have their pressure levels. When one is under pressure the adrenals fire more. When the adrenals fire more, sleep can be elusive, and insomnia can set in. That’s why I have a shelf in my pantry devoted to natural sleep remedies.
The following supplements are the natural sleep remedies I keep on hand and take along with us when we travel.
Natural Sleep Remedies
l-Theanine
I use the Pure Encapsulations brand of l-Theanine, so that is what I know best. This product contains 200 mg of l-Theanine, an amino acid (a building block for proteins) found in green tea. In green tea, l-Theanine neutralizes the stimulating effects of caffeine. l-Theanine is used for for treating anxiety as well as high blood pressure and has a chemical structure that is quite similar to glutamate. Glutamate, a naturally occurring amino acid in the body that helps transmit nerve impulses in the brain, can also be quite stimulating. Oddly, some of the effects of l-Theanine appear to be similar to glutamate, and some of its effects seem to block glutamate, which would explain why l-Theanine has a neuro-inhibitory effect, thereby helping with relaxation and sleep.
GABA
One of the GABA products we use is pharmaGABA from Thorne, which contains 250mg of GABA, however, I believe other brands may be effective as well. GABA, a chemical made in the brain, is one of four main neurotransmitters (the other three consist of dopamine, acetylcholine, and serotonin). According to Dr. Eric Braverman, if your brain is a car, GABA would be the brakes. While GABA is fantastic for sleeping, I often take it during the day if I find myself in a stressful situation. In addition to the PharmaGABA product, which is a capsule, we also use Liposomal Zen which is a sub-lingual product dispensed in a base of sunflower oil.
Kavinace
Please note: Kavinace has been discontinued by the manufacturer.
The only company I’ve found that makes kavinace is Neuroscience. According to its manufacturer, kavinace is a proprietary blend of taurine, 4-amino-3-phenylbutyric acid, and Vitamin B-6 and is a precursor to GABA. Of all of the physicians I’ve spoken to regarding Kavinace, none were completely certain as to how it functions. Kavinace is the strongest of the three main sleeping remedies we use. If I do take it, I have one pill at 6pm, as it stays in my system for 19 hours –I can tell because I feel groggy for this time period after consuming it.
I find the above natural sleep remedies to be the most effective for my family. I also keep the following combination formula sleep remedies on hand:
Best Rest Formula
The Best Rest Formula by Pure Encapsulations is a combination formula, meaning it contains a number of ingredients that support sleep and restfulness, and aid in the reduction of anxiety. The primary ingredient in the Best Rest Formula is GABA, it contains 300mg in its blend. This potent formula also contains 1 mg of melatonin, plus l-Theanine, valerian (an incredible herb from which Valium was originally derived), lemon balm, hops, passion flower, and chamomile. While this is a fabulous blend, I find that more often we use the single formula products mentioned above and take those in combination to pack a very powerful punch. Still, I keep the Best Rest Formula on hand in case we don’t want to use the other products (i.e., just in case any of us were to build up a tolerance to them, which has not happened as of yet).
Herbal Sleep
Herbal Sleep is formulated by Nature’s Sunshine. This proprietary herbal blend contains valerian, passion flower, and hops. I don’t take it for sleeping, I actually use it when I get a headache.
When the boys were younger, they would ask me to give them their sleeping supplements. Now that they are in high school I believe it is important for them to learn self-care, so I keep these supplements on a shelf in our pantry and they take them as needed and use different doses of the above products during different times of the week. On weekends we all tend to sleep more and take more of these supplements. Not so during the week as we know if we need to wake up bright and early for school or work a smaller dose is more optimal.
Sleep is critical, in fact it is the most critical component of my healing plan. I highly recommend seeing a doctor and looking into getting a medical prescription if none of the natural sleep remedies above work for you. Human growth hormone is released, and heals our bodies while we sleep. If we can’t sleep we can’t produce this incredible substance and we can’t heal. If you aren’t sleeping, you simply aren’t healing, and getting well.
Numerous emerging studies demonstrate a link between sleep deprivation and Alzheimer’s in the elderly. For the young, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that teenagers sleep 8.5 to 9.5 hours per night and that middle and high schools start no earlier than 8:30am. Unfortunately, less than 20% of schools in the US begin at 8:30 or later.
There are many resources you can use to get a better night of sleep and to avoid the dreaded insomnia! What are your favorite methods, natural or otherwise, for sleeping? Which natural sleep remedies do you use? Leave a comment and let us know so we can all get to sleep!






Jenny says
This is a wonderful post! Thanks Elana! Each bedroom in our home has blackout shades and either no clock, or clocks that have a display that can turn off. My children are younger and cannot swallow supplements. Although they usually fall asleep without much trouble, occasionally they get a bit more amped On those occasions I like to use essential oils, such as lavender or Roman There are also proprietary “calming blends” that are really One caution about essential oils- lavender and melaleuca can supposedly mess with hormones. The studies I have read show that it takes a LOT of these oils to cause an We are only using one drop of lavender for sleep at any given time, and only once a week or so.
abigale says
I’ll have to try those supplements! I have a lot of problems getting enough sleep between school and One of my favorite ways to get some rest is an Epsom Salt bath before Up to 2 lbs of salts and soak for 30 minutes – puts me to sleep every time!
Iris says
Diffusing lavender essential oil is helpful, as is sleeping on an accupressure mat (to release endorphins) or earthing sheet or
Frances says
There is lot of stuff on the market that is not good. Do not put anything in your body until you’ve researched the side effects (and everything has at least one side effect. All you need is to get up in the morning and open the drapes and let the light in. Exercise during the day (it only has to be once, and not very rigorous — walking will do. A warm bath or shower about 90 minutes before bedtime. I just want to make it clear: the different types of breathing do not come easily They seem like work at first. They ARE work. But, then, once they are learned — you can put yourself to ‘nite nite’ every single nite.
Lynnette says
Thank you Elana
If anyone has any natural remedies other than side sleeping for sleep apnea I’d love to hear about it.
Elle says
Have you looked at the size of the uvula to see if it blocks the throat. If it is huge I know that some have it reduced using laser.
Victoria says
I also have sleep apena and do not use a cpap but a dental device called SUAD. It works well as it is noninvasive. I take my magnesium at night with some other herbs with my progesterone. I ordered sleep herbs from Dr Wu they do seem to help. I drink bedtime tea also.
Rob says
Chamomile tea gives a good, dream-free sleep without feeling drugged the next day : add a dash of peppermint tea(bag) to help the flavour!
Anita says
Thank you Elena, I am currently struggling to put my CRPS in remission. Part of this requires healing my neurotransmitters that send continuous signals for pain to my hand. Your information on sleep and how it effects the neurotransmitters has been beneficial. I have not been able to sleep since 6/99. I use Benadryl regularly and find that Magnesium helps as well. But I have been wanting to quit the Benadryl for years and can’t seem to find anything that works as well. I will be trying your regime.
Donna L says
My husband’s doctor told him the benedryl in his PM formula was very bad for him and to stop taking it My husband was exhibiting dementia symptoms after 3+ years of taking a PM sleeping aid containing is a month later since he stopped taking this product and he seems to be doing better
ad1210 says
Diphenhydramine, the medicine in Benadryl, actually works by suppressing histamine which also suppresses serotonin. They sit on the same brain receptor site. Suppressing serotonin can lead to mood issues and a lowered tolerance to pain. Interesting! I would get him off the Benadryl STAT.
These remedies are tried-and-trie for my 8yo and me as well! Thank you for the post, Elana!!!!! :)
Gisela says
Hi, Anita,
I feel for you because I had chronic pain for so many years also… The best thing for me against pain was actually stop eating grains, eggs and dairy. When I consume them, the pain spikes like crazy! It took me so many years to figure this out, but I finally did, luckily. Also plenty of sleep. I actually take Benadryl because it helps me to stay sleep (b/c I wake up through the night). Recently I found out that I have RLS (Restless Leg Syndrome), provably all my life. I ever heard those comments before, but now I will definitely check with my doctor, but none of them never said that anything about it before . I hope that you get better soon
Elana says
Gisela, thanks for another wonderful comment!
Mrs D says
Thanks for this information, Elana. Your sleep hygiene is amazing and I love that you’re teaching your boys great habits for health. I also want to add how grateful I am to you for your AMAZING recipes. We are fortunate enough not to have any food intolerances or allergies, but I always want to put my best nutirious foot forward for my family, so being able to have our occasional treats using your no-fail recipes has been the best. Thank you so much!
Maria says
What about Melatonin?
Judy says
I don’t have to use anything. My husband use to comment about how I was the only person he knew who was snoring before my head hit the pillow.
I do use Dr. Weil’s breathing exercises when under a lot of stress. It seems to help a lot.
http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/VDR00112/The-4-7-8-Breath-Benefits-and-Demonstration.html