For me, diet is a four letter word, I doubt you’ll find it very often on this website. I don’t spend a lot of time discussing gluten free around here either. That’s because I take it as a given that the food I eat will be Gluten Free, that’s just part of my life at this point, though it wasn’t always this way.
Lately, a number of people have asked me to share the story of my celiac diagnosis and personal transition to a gluten free eating plan and lifestyle. So here it is.
I was diagnosed with celiac disease in 1998 during my pregnancy (not uncommon since pregnancy is considered an immune event and celiac is an auto-immune disorder) with my older son. I was 30 years old and sick as a dog –I could barely get out of bed –no exaggeration. Things were very, very bad. My father suggested that I get tested for celiac disease. My mother had been sick for most of her adult life with various odd symptoms and had been recently diagnosed. I was tested and low and behold, yes, I had celiac disease.
Unlike the usual process, where it can take people as many as 9 years and numerous doctors to get a diagnosis and find out what’s going on, my diagnosis came only a few months after the onset of acute symptoms. In that way, I was very lucky. However, when I look back, I had been having classic symptoms of celiac disease and malabsorption for most of my life.
What were these symptoms? I was chronically anemic and whenever I was under stress would get angular chelitis, which is when the corners of your mouth crack and get a little rash. This is also a symptom of nutritional deficiency. So, maybe my diagnosis wasn’t so quick after all. I had to get to the point of being severely ill and bedridden to finally get the diagnosis. Still, I think I was lucky to get it so quickly once that did happen.
As many of you know, celiac disease is a genetic disorder –it runs in families and it has hit my family quite hard. Not only do my mother and I have celiac, my sister and older son have it as well. Incidentally, my mother-in-law also has celiac. So, as you can imagine, the work that I do in creating gluten free recipes is very personal for me.

Anyway, when I received my diagnosis I was tremendously relieved. I finally knew what was going on with my body. I had already had a 3 year training in Ayurveda which included yoga asana, herbs and food, so I was fairly comfortable in the kitchen. That doesn’t mean I could actually make tasty food –my husband disliked my Ayurvedic fare with a passion! He was not a big fan of kichidi, or kichari, as some refer to it.
Of course after the diagnosis I went completely gluten free. As I mentioned, the diagnosis wasn’t a big deal for me. I cooked very simple gluten free foods –vegetables, quite a lot of grains and some proteins. A few months later, I spent a lot of my time making baby food too, once my son finished nursing around a year old.
When that same son turned 3, I started to notice some digestive and behavioral issues in him. I fed him a gluten free diet during the week; however, during the weekends, he went to birthday parties, and the food served at those parties was pizza and cake (gluten galore). Let’s just say that Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday were full of tantrums and mal-digestion.
I asked my son’s fabulous pediatrician (Mark Nesselson, he’s still in practice in NYC), to test my son for celiac and the test came back positive.
This diagnosis had quite an impact on me.
I wanted my son to grow up with all of the delicious treats that I had had in my childhood. So, I made it my mission to turn all of my favorite recipes into gluten free classics. For myself, all I really cared about was getting healthy. For my son, this was a social issue and one that I did not want to color his childhood and experience of food. Of course it did, though hopefully not in a bad way.

This site and my book, The Gluten-Free Almond Flour Cookbook, are the result of my passion for providing my son with delicious gluten free food. It’s been quite a journey and one that has really had a positive impact on my family.
It took a long time though, to heal my gut and my son’s as well. Like some of you out there, the standard gluten free diet didn’t really do much for my son or myself. Probably a lot of you are here for that exact reason. Regular, plain old gluten free doesn’t always work. There can be other food allergies (such as dairy) and issues of chronic malabsorption.
My search for better health lead me to research, lots of research, and my son and I ended up on the introductory phase of the Specific Carbohydrate Diet. We stayed on that (the intro phase) for about a year.
If you don’t know what that is, let’s just say that we didn’t eat sweets for quite some time, and when I say sweets, I’m talking about fruit, dessert, etc. This was a huge challenge, though it really worked for us. My son is now merely gluten free, which for him is fairly easy compared to the Specific Carbohydrate Diet introductory phase.
I personally am fairly Paleo, I find that works really well for my body since I cannot digest any grains whatsoever. I’ve been grain free for more than 9 years now.
Is there a one size fits all solution when it comes to diet and healing? I don’t think so. I believe we are all different, in fact, completely different bio-chemical individuals. Given that, what works for you? Do you have a specific eating plan that you follow? Do you eat things that you know will make you feel yucky? I do.
My biggest challenge these days is dairy. As you can see from my Month O’ Cupcakes, I like dairy, a lot! I know that cow dairy probably isn’t the best for me, as when I have some cheese or whipped cream, the next morning when I wake up, my right elbow hurts a bit. That’s an allergic/addiction that I’m dealing with right now. Nobody’s perfect! I also find it challenging to stay on my ideal eating plan when I’m baking tons of desserts for this website or my books. During those times (which seems like all the time) I knowingly take in more sweets than is best for my body.

So there you have it. My perfect fare is protein and greens with a little bit of fruit –make that low glycemic fruit such as berries. When I eat that way, I feel like a million bucks. Although I have great discipline, I’m also like everyone else. If it’s there, I’ll eat it –to a point, I still draw the line at many, many foods such as gluten, grains, etc.
What do you like to eat? How did you find out you had celiac or were gluten intolerant?
I’m certainly going to go into more detail in future posts and provide specific information about how I like to eat and other tools that I have used to help heal myself. And some of that information might work for you, and some, you might just want to toss out the window! Take what works and leave the rest behind. For me, all of life is simply the process of self-discovery and continual refining and adjustment.





Shannon says
Can you recommend a good book on the Paleo diet. I read the Wiki article and it sounds like something that my dear digestive system would love! I am going to look around your website and see if you have it listed somewhere. Anyone else can make a suggestion too! Thanks! Oh my son and I are both gluten free and I am also dairy free.
VeggieGirl says
I know it doesn’t sound that meaningful, but PLEASE trust me when I say THANK YOU so much for writing this and sharing your story. Thank you, always.
Jessica says
Elana, this is a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing it. I ran two essays on the same topics last week:
Eating and Thriving on a Restricted Diet
http://asweetlife.org/a-sweet-life-staff/featured/eating-and-thriving-on-a-restricted-diet/8508/
and
Why I Eat Like A Caveman
http://asweetlife.org/a-sweet-life-staff/featured/why-i-eat-like-a-caveman/8447/
Thanks for all the great recipes you share!
Amy says
Hi Elana!
Thanks for sharing your story. Since I have known you so long, I confess I was curious, but didn’t want to be nosy. Did you have symptoms in childhood? Of course, I don’t remember you ever complaining about anything, but sometimes digestive things are seen as private and/or I was just an oblivious kid.
Lots of love
Amy
elana says
Thanks for your question Amy.
I had been having classic symptoms of celiac disease and malabsorption for most of my life. I was chronically anemic and whenever I was under stress would get angular chelitis.
However, I did not have any digestive distress growing up. And I would have told you if I did, especially since you ran away to my house dressed up as a cowboy when you were 4 years old.
Mary Hampton says
Elana, I think your cookbook and recipes are fantastic!! I am beside myself right now though. I had a blood allergy test done and I and very high on almonds and gluten. I do not have celiac as they tested me for that. So I cannot have almond flour and I am supposed to be following the Type B blood type food list which says I can’t have coconut or tapioca flour either. UGH!!!! I am frustrated and upset. Not knowing where to turn. I crave bread terribly. My cholesterol and triglycerides are out of sight at the moment and I need to take drastic measures before they put me on drugs which I do not want to take. Thanks again for your recipes and cookbook. I loved everything I made until I found out all this wonderful news. Good luck to you.
Elizabeth says
Our 3 year old has suffered for over a year w/ chronic D, if you know what I mean! My husband and daughter have Crohn’s D and I had them on the Specific Carbo Diet for several months. My daughter got some healing, my son didn’t and hubby didn’t want anything to do w/ SCD. I personally am a raw foodist. That is what makes me feel great.I incorporate a large percent of raw foods into their diets and they do really well with them. The 3 year old get even sicker when eating beef, so that has been cut out 100%. Also chocolate. He can’t even have a drop of it. It increases the GI problems ten fold. We had even gone dairy free for almost a year and that didn’t give him any improvement.
Our son goes to the pediatric GI this week. I am going to ask him for a test for Celiac D. . It is so frustrating and such a hard journey. I just hope we can find the answers b/c I am tormented watching him suffer w/ diarrhea every day and stomach bloating and only once in a while he’ll say his tummy hurts. Thanks for sharing your post!
Peace & Health,
Elizabeth
Jennifer R. says
We have more in common besides being gluten free… I was pregnant with my first child in 1998 and also 30 years old (but my gluten intolerance was not diagnosed until Jan 2009 — I was anemic and having malabsorption issues too).
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I need to do better about the social situations with my kids (it’s only been about a year that my kids went gluten free — I have 3 kids — almost 12, 9 and 5)
Sondraj says
Elana
Thank you for sharing with us your story and journey. I don’t have celiac’s but I have been Paleo for the past 2 years and love it. Taking grains completely out of my diet has done wonders to my health and body. I love visiting your website and making all the delicious treats and foods. Unfortunately these days, Grocery stores are filled with processed and unhealthy foods that are being passed to the American public as good nutritional foods. Your foods are delicious and nutritional. Thank you for inspiring me in the kitchen. I applaud you and your mission. You are making a giant impact on many people including myself, please keep up your wonderful work.
Sondra
Karen Schulz-Harmon says
Thanks for sharing! :)
+K
Jessica says
Thanks so much for sharing your story with us. I am not celiac, but I have a lot of risk factors. I don’t have any family members to the best of my knowledge, but I have an autistic son and other kids with learning disorders, I have autoimmune thyroid issues, and I can’t think of the others, but I’ve often wondered.
I just like to learn about all kinds of new recipes, even gluten free. Why not?