The other day, I was speaking with a friend who has chronic constipation. When she asked me for advice, I suggested pelvic floor therapy.
What is Pelvic Floor Therapy?
In essence, pelvic floor therapy is a treatment provided by a licensed physical therapist trained to treat pelvic floor dysfunction.
Pelvic Floor Therapy Equals Kegels?
She said that she was already doing it, so I asked, “where do you go?” and she replied, “I do it at home. I found out about it on the internet and now I do kegels.”
Pelvic Floor Therapy?
While this is a fantastic start to getting in touch with some of the pelvic floor muscles, what I was referring to is generally considered a medical treatment from a physical therapist.
This can often involve learning to relax and release overly tight muscles in the pelvic floor, though, like any therapy, it is customized to the individual.
Pelvic Floor PT
This therapy may include stretching and or strengthening of the pelvic floor muscles as well as those of the hip, low back, thighs, and more.
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Pelvic Floor Massage
Typically, this is a hands-on or manual therapy. It may involve working vaginally or rectally.
Pelvic Floor Dysfunction: Home Treatment
While it is fantastic to be able to see a pelvic floor therapist for treatment, not everyone has insurance that covers pelvic floor injury.
Pelvic Wand
When I am not able to make the time to get to a pelvic floor therapist and am suffering from discomfort, I use a pelvic wand that can reach up and into the pelvic floor muscle area.
What is a Pelvic Wand?
Wondering what is a pelvic wand? It’s a pelvic floor massage tool for relaxing and releasing the pelvic floor muscle team.
These muscles are located deep in the pelvis and the pelvic wand is designed so that you can reach them more easily to do soft tissue massage and trigger point release on yourself.
Therawand
The brand of wand I use is called Therawand, and it is made of a medical-grade polymer blend of ABS and Polycarbonate.
TMT Pelvic Wand
Alternatively, when the above wand is not in stock, you can use the TMT Pelvic Floor Wand. I have also used this wand with good results.
How to Use: Pelvic Wand
Above is a video with instructions for how to use a pelvic floor wand at home.
How to Relax Pelvic Floor Muscles: Online Pelvic Floor Therapy
If you’re not interested in pursuing the wand, you can try online pelvic floor therapy.
My friend Lauren, who can be found on Instagram at thelaurenohayon, is a genius when it comes to pelvic floor education and rehabilitation.
Lauren states that the constant external rotation from yoga and Pilates can tighten the pelvic floor. I began teaching yoga over 30 years ago, and we were very external rotation focused.
I’ve found that Lauren’s philosophy and exercises are effective in providing relief and opening for my pelvic floor while strengthening my core.
My Pelvic Floor Injury
Lauren’s work, along with hands on treatment from a pelvic floor therapist for a few years prior, has helped with a severe scar from an episiotomy that has caused me pain over the years.
My boys were born in the late 1990s, and over the past decades, I had been suffering from discomfort due to the episiotomy.
Episiotomy Pain
Strangely, a midwife gave me the episiotomy during an otherwise natural, totally un-medicated childbirth.
Vaginal Pain
I still don’t understand why and would have preferred not to have it. It took a long time to heal and caused me severe post-partum pain for months.
I never spoke about it with anyone, thinking it was normal that it hurt to sit down for a year after my son was born. It especially hurt when I was sitting and nursing.
Silent Suffering
Thanks to a growing number of pelvic floor physical therapy practices, women can be treated for our pain.
And thanks to the resource Lauren has created we have a place to learn, gather, and discuss what was once taboo.
Pelvic Floor Therapy for Men
Because pelvic floor injuries also occur in men, pelvic floor therapy can also be beneficial for them.
I cannot speak from personal experience, obviously, but the practice I go to in Boulder says that 35% of their patients are male.
What is Pelvic Floor Dysfunction?
Pelvic floor dysfunction is often a component of the following medical issues:
- Pelvic Pain
- Low Back Pain
- Hip Dysfunction
- Bowel Issues
- Bladder Dysfunction
- Functional Incontinence
- Uterine Prolapse
- Painful Intercourse
- Episiotomy Damage
- C-Section Scarring
Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy
I have gone to a practice in Boulder called Pelvic Therapy Specialists.
They take most forms of insurance, which I think is amazing. The experience is lovely from the moment you call them on the phone.
Pelvic floor therapy takes place in such a vulnerable part of the body that I would only recommend going to a place where all of the employees are incredibly pleasant, personable, and thoughtful.
Finding the Right Pelvic Floor Specialist
Several years ago, I went to a pelvic floor therapy practice where the receptionist was not a happy person.
I felt crushed every time I called and set up an appointment over the phone.
I also brought a friend with me to each appointment just to have someone to keep me company and to act as a buffer in dealing with the animosity that emanated from behind the front desk.
This was not a good long term arrangement and required way too much effort on my part, so I stopped going there even though the pelvic floor therapist was great.
Bedside Manner That Works
Although we have little power in this odd healthcare system, I do my best to avoid practices with negative gatekeepers.
When I encounter an efficient, pleasant person who answers the phone at one of my physician’s offices, I am sure to let the doctor know how grateful I am for that person.
When we’re sick or in pain, there’s no need for nasty bureaucrats to pile it on and further distress us.
Do You Have Pelvic Floor Dysfunction?
If you have any of the issues listed above it may be worth consulting with a physical therapist specializing in pelvic floor treatment.
Do you have pelvic floor issues? Leave a comment and let me know.
This post is an oldie but goodie from the archives. I first shared Pelvic Floor Therapy in 2019.
Sheila Mennear says
I have Parkinson’s Disease and part of it is tightening of all the muscles. Emptying my bladder or bowel nearly impossible and has been for quite awhile. Living in a rural area and not driving makes it difficult to attend therapy.
Thank you for this information, Eliana. I’m grateful to you. All I need now is information on where to find this item with instructions.
Elana says
Sheila, thank you for sharing your journey here with me. The item is linked in the post for you and other readers. LMK if you need help finding it. I am thinking of you ❤️
Damselfly says
It was recommended to me by my osteopath because I was having tailbone pain from two previous injuries. Not only did it help my tailbone, but I have been almost 100% relieved from chronic low back pain that was treatment-resistant. I am so grateful.
It isn’t necessarily a pleasant process as it is quite invasive so I agree with Elana that you need to find someone you trust and connect with. It helped me to remember that they do this all day, every day.
Even if your insurance won’t cover it, I would say paying for a couple of sessions is worth it if there is anyway you can afford it. Bring along a wand and ask the therapist to show you how to use it at home.
Elana says
Damselfy, great comment and great idea about bringing along a want to the PT session!
RT says
You were my sign from the Universe this morning to finally address this-I was in tears about it last night and hadn’t found anyone who accepts my insurance yet so was avoidant of it all together. I came to your site to search a recipe I enjoyed and first thing on your page is about PF Therapy. Thank you
Elana says
RT, thanks for your comment –synchronicity ❤️
MaryAnn says
I always wondered about this. Thanks for sharing!
Elana says
MaryAnn, you are very welcome!
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Elana says
Thanks for sharing that you do PFT (pelvic floor therapy)!
Clare Martin says
My sister found out recently that she had gotten pelvic floor dysfunction after her pregnancy, so she is hoping to get treatment for it soon since it’s been quite uncomfortable for her lately because of this, especially with the constant feeling of constipation. I appreciate you letting us know that pelvic floor therapy can help treat this dysfunction using activities that stretch and strengthen the pelvic floor muscles along with the hips, low back, and thighs. I’ll take note of this while I look for where my sister can get her pelvic floor therapy done in San Diego soon.
Elana says
Clare, thanks for sharing your (and your sister’s) story here. I’m so happy to help.